::Choice in ur hands!!!::

Friday 4 December 2009

::He's growing up::

He's growing up.Now my little prince can sit,crawl,stand and learning to walk..Alhamdulillah...He got the teeth and learn to bite but still sangat manja..he doesnt want to hold his own biscuit and eat by himself, ppl hav to hold for him..sangat garang..hahaha..this one is totally come from his mother gen..and of course his voice Ouch, kuat sangat...Son of teacher..:)

Oh, at first I'm a bit worry when his development is late.at 9mos he juz started to crawl but i do believe that every baby has own milestones and develops at his own pace.Not to worry because the time will come for them..But, I will feel worry when I heard other babies are more advanced than my baby. It's natural to worry right. At the age of 6mos and above, baby development on physical or speech are vary from others. I'm interested to talk about this when I read the entry from Ila-Mummy Aqil Khalish on "cepatnye,on time,lambatnye"..
I didnt want to comment about others.This is all about me..

What did I feel when my son show his first attempt to roll from his back to front?
Of course I was happy at that time and feel proud because he can do it. More proud becoz I was the first person saw it!!..I believe all Mommies are proud with their child development right.

What did I feel when the nurses ask whether my baby can sit on his own, crawling during monthly checkup (8mos)?
I felt soooooooo worry bcoz my baby canNOT do all the actions at 8mos.He juz starting to do 'combat' crawl at 8mos becoz before that his mode of transportation is roll over and over. I hate to compare my baby with other babies and I also hate when ppl compare my baby. I know my baby well.

As I am concern about my baby, I learn and search bout more info on baby milestones and development (actually i'v learn bout it during my study on Child Language Acquisition) and that's why I believe that all babies do have their own milestones. The timeline is a general guide. I do believe if my baby doesnt follow the milestones chart maybe he is trying his best to focus on certain skill. Moreover, mommies know her child well so we can detect any abnormality and do not hesitate to see for doctor's advice rather than comparing your babies with other.

p/s I got this useful advice from hubby's friend. When I told him dat Aqeel Haziq didnt crawl yet, he told me dat Aqeel may skip the skill. He reminded us, if Aqeel skip the skill of crawling, we have to teach him crawl eventhough he has walk. It is because every steps n skills that babies learn it will connect the nerves in their brain. So, we have to help them.

That's all folks...

7 comments:

Azlina Ibu Alisha said...

Ina pon pernah rasa risau teramat sgt bila Alisha lambat merangkak..tp when the time comes, die merangkak dgn sendiri..without me forcing her..
so dr situ ina belajar sesuatu...

Jue ~ mama DnD said...

salam ct...akak just want to share a bit experience...:) x perlu risau pasal anak ct lambat ker aper ker.. it's normal...
anak sulung akak si danish tu dulu pun categori bdk yg lambat... dekat setahun baru nak merangkak.. n dia start berjalan ketikla umur setahun setengah.. as a mother mmg akak risau sgt... sampai jumpa paed lah.. paed ckp kat akak every bb dev level berbeza... xperlu risau... beri anak kita masa sehingga umur dia setahun setengah... by setahun setengah diapasti berjalan.. kalo dah 20 minth x berjalan baru you patut risau... mcm tulah paed tu ckp kat akak.. masa tu akak mmg slalu rasa mcm down jer.. napa anak aaku lambat.. nampak anak org dah berlari anak aku masih merangkak... tp skang akak rasa kata² doktor tu betul...skang nidanish dah 6 years..membesar sebagai hero yg sgt menyenangkan hati n bijak..Alhamdulillah... jalan cepat ke rlambat ker itu bukan jaminan untuk apa² pun di masa depannya.... jln lambat lah untung.. dpt berdukung lama sket...hehehe... k so ct xperlu risau n pikir apa org nak kata..lantak depa a... u x rugi per per....

Cik CT said...

mak-mak selalu sgt risau kn..
aQeel mmg suka berdokong..sangat suka...rasanye cam dh lekuk pinggang mama..hahahha....

Mummy Aqil said...

halu..halu.. daku dulu pun risau gak sbb aqil xterap2.. siap ku g golek kan dia kiri kanan.. tp pas bc kat bbcentre.. ku insaf..hahahaa... let them choose when is the suitable time to do it.

so, ideologi risau tkt anak lmbt itu ini, mmg sgt normal.. hehe...

Mummy Wafiq said...

wafiq sampai la ni xmerangkak ct..die still crawl jer 1 umah..june xrisau pon..cuma kalo org tny sendiri yg akan ngaku "ha a..wafiq ni mmg mls sket.." tu je ku kata..hahaha..lbh baik slhkan anak sendiri dr kite membangga xtentu psl..

Cik CT said...

MummyAqil - itu adalah lumrah mak..suka risau sgt..
MummyWafiq - babab bontot wafiq selalu..hehehe..Wafiq sgt manja.tu sbb maleh nk merangkak.tp combat crawl sgt laju..tlg Mummy mop lantai ye Wafiq..

Huda said...

akak, huda pun selalu gak mengeluh nape husna lom merangkak, lom berdiri, lom ape2 la kan smua tu..

then mak huda selalu cakap, dun wori. dia tau ape yg dia buat. tu kdg2 huda tak pasan ntah bile mase dia dh start merangkak, ni tgh menapak sikit2..tgk2 dah pandai. baby ni kdg2 dia pandai skip mane2 stage yg dia suke :)