::your strength::

Let’s think.
Are we brave enough to face with the consequences from what we had done before?
Will we be fine when we knew the effects of what we had done?
Are we ready to listen to others people comments on what we had done?

We need strength. Mentally and physically.
Yes. We need it before and after we did something that involved other people’s feeling. We have to bear in mind that some people can easily accept our comments, opinions or assistance BUT some people do not. A part of our talk or action maybe can ruin a friendship.(our friendship or maybe others)
That’s human nature. (friends come and go)
Sometimes, we think very carefully or thoroughly and we conclude that our talk, comments, writing or what so ever will not be harmful to others’ feeling BUT probably it goes contradict.
That’s why we have to be ready. HOW?
Be an apologizing and forgiving person. Yes, it is your strength. Your inner strength that SHOULD COME FROM YOUR HEART.

p/s This entry is dedicated to my sis nani-chan. You’re very brave dear. What I can say is you’ve done a right thing. Eventhough you might hurt her feelings but you already ask for her forgiveness. And if she is like you, she has to forgive and understand why did you send the email (though I didn’t know what are the email content but I believe it must be related with ‘she&he’ relationship rite). BUT nani, I like to remind you that there are many types of girls. And most of the girls are sensitive or very sensitive when come to love part. Only little things can make them hurt emotionally and lead them to hatred. It will take a long time for them to forgive even you say that you didn’t mean to hurt her at beginning. That’s why people say girls always think with their feelings not with their brains. I do believe it when it comes to the problem that involved love or friendship. Till some of them take a short way to solve it by breaks it up. Some people will say that what you did was wrong and others probably not. However, I still proud of you to be such a forgiving and apologizing person. That’s not easy dear BUT make sure it is really come from the deep of your heart.